就算是认识很久的朋友,也并不是什么场合带去的


就像范玮琪唱的那首歌一样“第一次见面看你不太顺眼,谁知道后来关系那么密切.”

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毕业2年,从大学室友到现在,两个人一直在一起合租,关系算是挺好的。去年10月份,她有了男朋友,开始和我的关系渐行渐远的,第一次和她一起吃饭,应该是去年的事情了。果然,有了男朋友的人,确实不能顾及身边的朋友,因为总是在陪伴着男朋友。

果然还是应了老师的那句话:不能和有男朋友的姑娘住一块

以前经常听到她对各种人生理想的看法,可现在,就算是同睡在一张床上,我发现我已经无力再去追问什么人生理想了。

有时自己就开始想着,可能这就是外乡人的尴尬吧。

我是个不怎么擅长处理关系的人,人也比较敏感,比较擅长隐藏情绪,也不会轻易让别人看到自己的脆弱。这也许是因为一个人在陌生的城市生存的本能吧。我们这样的外乡人,总会第一时间,保护好自己。

从前觉得我们无话不谈,任何鸡毛蒜皮小事,都会互相倾诉,可现在频频出现安静不说话的场面。

朋友,原谅我渐渐减少的关系和问候。

XXEvery child who is far away from home is accompanied by loneliness. A friend is a hometown treasure, and may not be able to appreciate this feeling. In addition, the concept of being a child is not the same, they often go to what kind of age to do what kind of thing. Therefore, I am always alone, from the early morning to the night, the more lonely and more serious. They often share the experience of the test room with each other, but I have never participated in the "stable work" they talked about. The ideas are inconsistent, so I often feel that I am an outsider. I am familiar with friends of friends, or I think I think, because friends of friends often come to our house to eat, but when people eat together, they never think of you, this is the embarrassment of outsiders. "I wanted to call you together." This was said many times. Later, I heard that it was a guest.

The so-called different roads are different.

The deep meaning of this sentence, I understand more deeply. Even if you have known friends for many years, it is not the occasion to bring you.

xx